Tag: transformation

  • Stretch

    Stretch

    Start your week with self care and journal to the following prompt.

    How will I stretch myself this week?

  • 24 Hours

    24 Hours

    Start your week off with self care by journaling to the following prompt.

    How will I move closer to the best version of myself in the next 24 hours?

  • Journaling for Transformation: 31 Days to Discover Your Next Step is now open!

    Journaling for Transformation: 31 Days to Discover Your Next Step is now open!

    Stop struggling to discover your next step, and start journaling instead! Journaling for Transformation will help you cultivate a journaling habit and discover the next step of your transformation.

    You can access Journaling for Transformation by clicking HERE!

    In addition to all of the bonuses the course already offers you, if you purchase the course before Thursday, 9/17/20, you will get a FREE one-hour coaching session with me! I can’t wait to meet you and talk about your next step.

    As a reminder, this is what you get with the course.

    • daily encouraging emails
    • reasons to incorporate a daily journaling habit into your life
    • tips on cultivating a daily journaling habit
    • practice journaling to daily prompts
    • strategies to fit journaling into your busy schedule in just 10-15 minutes per day
    • 31 brief video lessons (approximately 5 minutes each – yes, you have time to squeeze this into your day!)
    • 31 daily journaling prompts
    • Workbook for your 31 daily journaling prompts (the workbook is a fillable pdf you can download and print or use right on your computer)

    THAT’S OVER A $100 VALUE!

    But since it takes an average of 66 days to form a habit, you get 35 more days of journal prompts!

    After course completion, you also gain access to the following….

    • 14 additional journaling prompts delivered daily after course completion
    • 14 bonus prompts in your workbook (31 daily journaling prompts + your 14 bonus prompts = 45 days of journaling)
    • 14 additional daily encouraging emails
    • My pdf/flip book Journaling for Self Care and Self Discovery
    • Journaling for Self Care and Self Discovery Workbook that has 21 journal prompts (the workbook is a fillable pdf you can download and print or use right on your computer)
    • 21 additional daily encouraging emails
    • Link to LELA House journaling prompts archive, so you can have ongoing access to journaling prompts
    • And the BIG BONUS  – a free 1-hour one-on-one coaching session with me, if you purchase this course before September 17, 2020!

      THAT’S A TOTAL OF AN ADDITIONAL $150 OF BONUSES!

    This means you’ll get a personalized, 1-on-1 coaching session PLUS 66 days of encouragement, journaling instruction, and journaling prompts delivered to your inbox each day (a $250 value) for only $47!

    Purchase Journaling for Transformation now and reserve your free coaching session.

    I’m so excited for your transformation!

  • You are Amazing

    You are Amazing

    Start your week off with self care and journal to the following prompt.

    How am I amazing?

  • Celebrate Self Care

    Celebrate Self Care

    Sixteen days ago I began writing for a BYOB (Blog Your Own Book) challenge. The challenge is to write a blog post each day for the month of August, so that by the end of August, participants will have written the bulk of the material for a book. Today I am celebrating my courage to put my weird ideas about reading and journaling as educator self care into the ether, my consistency, and my small steps (writing one blog post may not seem like much, but when it turns into a book it certainly does).

    And I want you to celebrate yourself, too.

    Celebrate the courage you’re showing by choosing yourself. Most educators put themselves last, but you are choosing to give yourself time and space to rest, reflect, and grow.

    Celebrate your consistency. Forming a habit is difficult, but taking one small step day after day helps you reach your goals.

    Celebrate your small steps. You wrote in your journal today? Good for you! You read for five minutes? Way to go! I’m not one to celebrate mediocrity, and please don’t get me started on children getting trophies just for showing up. Nevertheless, stepping into something you’ve not committed to before is daunting. 

    I applaud your efforts. Transformation is hard work.

    Real-life transformation doesn’t happen like Cinderella’s “Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo” scene, which yields temporary change in Cinderella’s circumstances. Rather it plays out  like Mulan’s “Be a Man” scene, which reveals Mulan’s strength of character.

    I celebrate your strength of character. I celebrate you. You should, too.

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    I am doing a 31-day series on reading and journaling as self care for educators. Each day of the series has bonus journal prompts. Click to join the LELA House family of educators committed to nourishing their reading, writing, and creative souls. You’ll receive a link to the journal prompts and gain early alerts for upcoming LELA House ideas, courses, and products. You only need to subscribe once. I will add a new worksheet each day to the access link.

    Roshaunda D. Cade, Ph.D. is an educator, writer, and creator.  She offers life coaching and writing coaching to educators, as well as other opportunities for educators to practice self care through reading and writing. Check out her LELA House website to learn more about her services.  Roshaunda lives in St. Louis, MO with her husband and teenage children and enjoys reading, writing, dancing, and pushing her creative boundaries.  

  • Learning to Lead Your Lizard Brain

    Learning to Lead Your Lizard Brain

    Yesterday I attended the first session in a Master Mind Institute webinar series about neuroscience and life coaching. I learned fresh ways to consider and discuss emotions, and I’m excited to align my new learning with the lessons I gleaned from Susan David’s Emotional Agility.

    The amygdala is an almond-shaped, almond-sized section of the brain that houses emotional experiences and responses. The word amygdala derives from Latin for almond, which I find fascinating. I imagine scientists of yore plotting various parts of the brain and their functions saying, “Yeah, we know this part of the brain deals with emotions, but instead of naming it for emotions, let’s name it something less intimidating. Almonds are not at all intimidating, and it looks like an almond, so….” So now we have an almond directing our emotions.

    This emotional center is also known as the lizard brain (score another point for cool scientists and their nomenclature), which determines the fight-or-flight response.  In determining fight or flight, the lizard brain intertwines emotions and learning.

    An example given in the webinar depicted a person walking around gathering plants and provisions and stumbling upon a lion. The lizard brain kicked in with the emotions of stress and fear, helping the person to decide whether to fight or flee. The person in the scenario chose to flee (which makes sense to me), but while fleeing, the person had to pay attention to where in the savanna she was, the time of day, directionality, topography, etc. In other words, she needed to learn how to avoid the lion while she fled from it.

    Learning and emotions have never been separated, yet we often think of them as discrete. Because they share a neurological link, we can learn how to manage our emotions. First, we must accept that an almond-sized lizard directs synaptic emotional traffic in our brains.

    You will have an emotional response when your status quo gets disrupted. You are hard-wired to do so. What you do with that emotional response, however, determines whether you grow and transform or become stagnant and stuck.

    Dealing with your emotions doesn’t need to be scary. From now on, I will picture my emotions as a cute almond-sized axolotl (albeit an amphibian) on a mission to help me navigate my world.

    What about you? The first step to transformation is acknowledging your emotions influence you. The next is to realize how they influence you.

    To partner with someone who can help you figure out how to manage your emotions and transform your life, contact me. I would love to join you on your journey.

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